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I could say I’ve always been confident most of my life, but not all the time. It definitely took some work to be confident in a world full of media representations telling us women to be timid, not to speak out, and to lower ourselves in specific situations such as at work.
For example
Not asking for a raise—when I found out about women not asking for raises because we believe we’re taking up too much space—I was livid. Taking up your space in the world is literally your right. Don’t let anyone try to lower you so they can shine. So, this blog post is going to outline different ways for you to actually be
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To me, being confident and actually exuding that confidence is a muscle that has to be built over time, and just like a habit, it takes work and constant trials. But once you get it right, it literally becomes muscle memory.
So think of it this way: it’s definitely possible, and one of the first steps that I’ve already highlighted and we’ll really talk about further here is mindset.
Your mindset is everything, and yes, it’s very possible to think your way into your new reality. In this case, it’s about being the most confident you that you could ever be.
What exactly is the confident mindset?
“I am unique.” The truth is no one can ever be like you, and vice versa, you can never be like anyone else.
Knowing that you’re literally irreplaceable is something you should never forget. Because you are unique, you have a unique twist to every situation.
Never think of yourself as inferior to anyone in any situation just because someone thinks, moves, or even looks a certain way different from you.
So the attitude to have is to show up as your best self and give everything your all. Never shy or suppress yourself just because you’re trying to fit in; you’re literally doing everyone, including yourself, a disservice because they can never see what you’re capable of. Remember this when your limiting beliefs try to start kicking in.
I can’t stress this enough. Unfortunately, when we were born, we weren’t given a manual on how we should live our very unique lives, so that’s something you have to figure out. “Have to” in this sense is very important.
Like in the book The Art of War, to win the war, you have to know your enemy. In the case of lacking confidence, the truth is you’re your own enemy, and that’s why I highlighted the fact that you have to understand yourself first.
Activities to Help You Understand Yourself:
While doing the inner work, you’re inevitably going to have to work through your weaknesses and accept them in their entirety. But something you should also do is highlight your strengths.
Literally, be your own cheerleader in a world that tries to prey on your weaknesses.
Highlighting your strengths is your superpower. For example, if you feel like you have a really nice body, buy dresses that complement it or choose colors that enhance it.
Journaling Comes In Again If you don’t have a book dedicated to project you, then it’s time to get one. Here are my favorite journals
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Create your ideal self or dream woman, an alternate personality, whatever you want to call it, and act like that person.
Draw inspiration from your favorite public figure or even a fictional character, but don’t copy—just draw inspiration.
Act until it becomes your reality, and with consistency, you’ll embody your dream persona.
Do things you wouldn’t naturally do but always wanted to do. For example, if you’ve always wanted to change up your style, now is probably the time
PRO Tip: Try creating a very detailed board vision board
Don’t judge others because you’re judging yourself. Heavy on— don’t pick out the bad in people.
If you’ve ever noticed, some of the saddest people in the world are people who have something to say about others.
It speaks volumes about how confident he/she is.
Finding the good in others can bring positivity into your life. When you judge others, you’re often reflecting your insecurities. Instead, focus on seeing the best in people.
Think about it: Have you ever felt happy when someone criticized you? Probably not. So, why do it to others? People who constantly judge are often unhappy themselves. It’s like they’re carrying a heavy burden of negativity.
This might be counterintuitive but try to be in rooms where you’re not necessarily the best person. Hear me out this is why
Put yourself in situations where you’re not the expert or the most skilled person in the room. This might feel uncomfortable at first, but being around others who excel in areas where you have room to grow can push you to improve.
When you’re exposed to different perspectives and skills, it opens up opportunities for learning and growth.
Over time, as you overcome challenges and expand your abilities, you’ll gain confidence in your capacity to adapt and thrive in diverse environments. By embracing situations where you’re not the best, you’ll gradually build resilience, self-assurance, and a deeper belief in your capabilities
Building confidence takes time and effort, but it is achievable with the right strategies. First, change your mindset. Believe you are unique and valuable. Then, understand yourself by talking to family, meditating, and journaling. These activities help you see your strengths and weaknesses clearly.
Next, focus on your strengths. Highlight your best qualities and be your own cheerleader. Moreover, create an alternate persona. Think about your ideal self and act like that person. Additionally, see the good in others to bring positivity into your life.
Finally, challenge yourself by stepping out of your comfort zone. This helps you learn and grow, making you more confident over time. By following these steps, you can build lasting confidence and show up as your best self in any situation.
About me
Welcome to my corner of the internet. If you’re like me, you love expressing yourself through photography. I know it might sound cheesy, but here, it’s totally okay to be cheesy. I’ve been a content creator and photographer for quite some time and have recently made the leap to doing it full-time. I’m thrilled and wanted to create this blog to share my journey with you.
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